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Preparing for Divorce

The Berger Firm Feb. 2, 2022

Filing for divorce is a complicated ordeal. Most people considering divorce are not fully prepared for the divorce proceedings, which is why many are caught off-guard when the process begins.

If you are considering divorce, have already filed, or have been served with divorce papers, there are certain things to consider and specific steps to take before the divorce proceedings begin.

Consider speaking with a divorce attorney in Covington, Kentucky, to help you navigate the divorce process and prepare for the complicated legal issues ahead. At The Berger Firm, our divorce attorneys are prepared to answer your questions and guide you through the divorce process in Kentucky. We assist clients throughout the greater Cincinnati area and Northern Kentucky, including Florence and Newport.

THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE DIVORCING

If you are contemplating a divorce, there are certain things you need to consider before the legal process begins:

  • Can your marriage be saved? Many couples regret filing for divorce because their marriage could have been saved before getting a divorce. You should make sure that your marriage is broken beyond repair before initiating the divorce process.

  • Are you prepared for the major changes in your life? With divorce comes major changes in most aspects of your life. Many people do not realize this when filing for divorce.

  • Does your divorce involve minor children? Keep in mind that your children will likely still maintain continued contact with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse. It’s important to be sensitive to how the divorce proceedings will affect them.

  • Can you handle the financial and emotional stresses of the divorce? A divorce can be both financially and emotionally taxing, which can take some mental preparation.

  • Do you know what type of divorce to seek? There are various types of divorce to choose from, including contested vs. uncontested, mediation, collaborative divorce, and litigation. Consider speaking with an experienced divorce attorney to discuss your options.

STEPS TO PREPARE FOR THE DIVORCE PROCESS

Preparing for the divorce process requires you to take a number of steps, including:

  • Consult with a family law attorney. A skilled family law attorney will review your particular situation, protect your interests, and help you understand your best course of action.

  • Gather financial information. Before filing for divorce, it is essential to assess your financial situation and gather the necessary financial information. Gather documentation and records that might be relevant for the distribution of assets and debts.

  • Determine your income. Each spouse’s income and earning capacity play a major role in the outcome of alimony, child support, and property distribution matters. Get a copy of tax return data for at least three tax years.

  • Establish your own credit. If you do not have credit in your own name, you might need to open a credit card in your name. However, you do not want to run up credit card debt while your divorce is pending.

  • Protect your financial accounts. Consider opening a new bank account in your own name and get copies of all your financial statements. It is also essential to close your joint credit accounts to prevent your spouse from running up debt.

  • Do not move out. Generally, spouses should not move out of the marital home until their divorce proceedings are final. Moving out could negatively affect your divorce case. However, each situation is unique, and living apart is sometimes the best choice for the sake of any children involved. Consult with your attorney regarding whether to move out.

  • Refrain from dating. Dating while your divorce case is pending could have a negative impact on the divorce proceedings. Wait until the divorce is final to date other people.

  • Talk to a marriage counselor. Consider talking to a marriage counselor before filing for divorce to help you cope with the emotions during the divorce process.

HOW THE BERGER FIRM CAN HELP

If you are considering a divorce or are already in the middle of one, our divorce attorneys at The Berger Firm are prepared to help. We understand that this is a difficult time for you. That is why we are prepared to walk you through every step of the divorce process and help you understand the legal process. Schedule a case evaluation with our divorce attorneys in Covington, Kentucky, to discuss your particular case.